SDSB Relationship

What is an SDSB Relationship? Everything You Need To Know.

If you're thinking of joining the sugar dating community or are just curious about sugar daddy/sugar baby relationships, keep reading.

In this article, we'll discuss the ins and out of a sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship, and what makes them different from other types of dating.

What is a Sugar Baby?

A sugar baby is usually someone who is on the younger side (think university students or people in their twenties,) typically younger women. An SB is the one who receives the financial support and is often the one with sexual expectations in the relationship.

Learn more about what sugar baby means in our full guide.

An SB is usually required to show affection, go on dates, and talk frequently with their SD (SD stands for sugar daddy.) Each relationship is different, of course. Not every SD/SB relationship is the same, but the babies usually have the most expectations between the two parties involved, while daddies are only expected to provide luxury.

What are the Perks of Being a Sugar Baby?

The general concept of a sugar baby is to receive money, expensive gifts, and other treats in exchange for companionship, and often, sex. It's because of this last point that a lot of people consider sugar dating as escort services and sex work, even though it isn't.

Who Can Be a Sugar Baby?

In short, anybody can be a sugar baby. Women, men, non-binary people, and everyone else can be sugar babies. While sugar babies are typically on the younger side, it's not a requirement.


The most popular type of sugar baby is a young, attractive woman. Many sugar daddies are looking for women who want a monogamous relationship, and are willing to be their sugar partner.

In most cases, babies will be a woman. That being said, you don't HAVE to be a woman to be a sugar baby.


You can be a man and be a sugar baby. Even though it's not super common, you can find beneficial relationships with older women or men. The great thing about being in a sugar relationship is how open and accepting the sugar dating community is.

Since it's a slightly taboo industry, the people involved in it are usually super open to any kind of relationship! That being said, remember that just because it's taboo doesn't mean it's wrong.

Non-Binary People

Bouncing off of the last paragraph, people who identify as non-binary or any other non-assigned gender can be sugar babies.

What is a Sugar Daddy?

A sugar daddy is someone who seeks a mutually beneficial relationship with sugar babies. The expectations can become pretty steep for sugar daddies. You're typically required to provide money (financial compensation), companionship, and other secret benefits you choose to provide for your baby.

We cover all the details of what sugar daddy means in our complete article.

Such a relationship may sound scary and overwhelming, but in most cases, the two people involved say they have a great time being in a mutually beneficial arrangement/relationship with each other!

Can Anyone Be a Sugar Daddy?

Even though we refer to them as sugar daddies, anyone can be a sugar partner. Basically, as long as you have enough money and want to provide companionship to someone, you can be a sugar daddy.

For the sake of today's article, we've been referring to them as sugar daddies as men are, of course, usually the ones who are the sugar provider.


Most of the sugar daddies out there are men. In fact, the vast majority of SD SB relationships and sugar relationships, in general, have men as sugar daddies and women as sugar babies.

If you're a successful man who is well off in life and wants to find a partner or a friendship where you can spoil them, you're definitely wanted in the sugar dating scene!


Our next type of sugar daddy is actually a sugar mommy. If you're a successful woman in search of sugar babies to spoil, you can still do that as a woman.

Most sugar relationships are between men and young women, but it's not set in stone. You can have male, female, or non-binary sugar babies.

How Do I Get a Sugar Daddy?

Thanks to modern-day technology, finding sugar relationships or friends is relatively easy. You can try the old-fashioned way of going out and finding someone, or you can take the easy route and use some of the websites listed below to find one!

Websites to Find an SD or SB

Now that you know what sugar babies and sugar daddies are, you're probably wondering where you can find your own SD or SB. Check out the list below of the best sugar dating sites out there.

Seeking Arrangement (AKA Seeking)

Our first companionship website is Seeking, or as it used to be known as, Seeking Arrangement. This site is one of the oldest and most well-trusted sugar dating sites out there.

If you're seeking companionship, friendship, online relationship, casual dating, or even marriage, Seeking is the site for you. The platform is open and works as a personal ad site, pairing sugar babies to their potential sugar daddies.

Many sugar babies use this site to help them find financial support (or financial assistance), and an older man to take care of them and maybe even put them through school.

Ashley Madison

Our second sugar dating site is Ashley Madison. This website is a bit different from other sugar dating sites as it's mainly used for married men to find affairs. You'll see that a lot of these older men seeking a sugar daddy relationship with a younger woman, even though they're in a marriage.

It can be fun and exciting for aspiring sugar babies who use this site. If you need things like your bills, car payment, rent, or just want to be showered in gifts, go ahead and sign up for Ashley Madison. You may find the benefits outweigh the cautions.

Adult Friend Finder

Our third dating site is another fan favorite on the web. AFF is perfect for those who are looking for more casual sugar relationships.

AFF is an open platform that allows you to look at multiple profiles at once. Even though this site is mainly used to find non-sugar dating, there still have been success stories of those who have found an SD relationship.

Miss Travel

Our fourth SD SB relationship site is Miss Travel. This site is great for SB who want to or already travel a lot. You can find a casual sugar daddy while you're on business trips or on vacation.

Finding a person to spoil you is pretty easy with this site. The same can be said for SD looking for SB. If you're wanting something casual or a fling, Miss Travel is probably the website for you.

What Exactly is an SD/SB Relationship?

To get straight to the point, an SD/SB relationship is the exchange of typical relationship things for monetary or gift exchange. The sugar baby's business venture is all about finding someone to share time with and maybe even form a relationship with, for mutual benefaction!

Different Types of SD/SB Relationships

To delve further on the point of what an SD/SB relationship is, there are three different types of relationships you can join in exchange for financial support!


If you're wanting companionship, but not the sex or romantic part, you can definitely make friends with your sugar baby. A friendship can be a mutually beneficial relationship just as much as romantic and sexual SD SB relationships.


A romantic SD SB relationship is, as the context refers, romantic. Most sugar daddies fall under this category when it comes to finding an SD SB relationship. Such relationships usually require a first date, companionship, love and affection, and more dates, all in exchange for monetary benefits.

Each romantic SD SB relationship is different depending on what the parties involved want to happen. sometimes, you can even score a marriage in some SD SB relationships!

Sexual Relationship

The last kind of SD SB relationship is sex. Sex is one of the few things that nearly everybody experiences in life. Hence why it's one of the most popular types of SD SB relationship. If you're wanting a sexual sugar relationship, whether you're a sugar baby or sugar daddy, you'll be able to find one pretty easily.

This type of sugar relationship is a great mutually beneficial relationship as it's the most bang (literally) for your buck!

Is a SD/SB relationship Good for Me?

Now that you know the ins and outs of SD SB dating, you're probably wondering if being a SB or a SD is a good fit for you. If you're wanting to be in a relationship with explicitly negotiated financial compensation in the mix, then you should definitely give sugar dating a try.

Staying Safe

Now that you've decided to join the SD SB community, it's important you follow the safety tips listed below.

  • Make sure your mental health is in tip-top shape. Sugar relationships can often require a lot of commitment and maybe even morality shifts to work. Since sugar dating has such a harsh stigma around it, it's important to make sure you're mentally okay to go forth.
  • Wear protection if you decide to have sex with your SD or SB. It's important that you and your partner decide to wear protection if you don't want to run the risk of having an unwanted pregnancy.
  • Go on a few dates before you go home alone with your SD or SB. This one goes without saying, but make sure you meet in public to get a good scope of who the person you're forming an SD SB relationship with is.

In Short

In short, if you're wanting to join a sugar relationship or make an SD friend, make sure you check out the websites listed above and keep our safety tips in mind. Most importantly, though, have fun!